Jun 2012 21


Last night, Evelyn Lozada stopped by the wildly popular web show, ‘Kandi Koated Nights’ for some sex talk with Kandi and her co-hosts.   The table topic was, ‘Why Do Women Have To Work So Hard To Keep Their Man’, and Evelyn left nothing to the imagination as she revealed that she tosses salads in the bedroom and has let another woman ‘eat the box’.

Lil Scrappy’s mother ‘Mama Dee’ from ‘Love and Hip Hop Atlanta’  was also on the show and she talked about how she got into the pimp game (she’s a former pimp) and playing mind games with women

Evelyn On if she cares if Chad cheats
I care. I’m not going to say that I don’t care, but I’m not going to stress myself to a point that I’m trying to do everything to stop him. Listen, if you want to go and f-ck then whatever, like I’m 36. I’m not trying to stress about that sh-t. It is what it is and I truly feel like a man is going to do what he wants to do no matter what you do.

On whether she and Chad do anal

On whether she swallows and tosses salads
Yes for both but wait let me make something clear; I have eaten a– but not Chad’s a–. His not into that [laugh]

On whether she and Chad has ever had a threesome
Almost. It didn’t quite happen

On whether the other girl ate her box

On her favorite position
I like being on top. I’m a rider.

On her freak number from 1 to 10

Lil  Scrappy’s mama revealed she had no regrets about her pimp days because it fed her kids:

I took care of my kids with my pimping money.  I was a nurse by trade in 96′ but unfortunately I was in a head on collision, so I couldn’t work. In the midst of that I had to take care of my kids  so I snatched up two hoes at the time and then…I’m a pimp by blood but no relation you heard me. I was taught by older pimps! They were like, ‘is this what you want’ ? I said, ‘Yeah, hell I want it.’  He said,  ‘Well watch’ and I watched how they  treated women and how they would go into strip joints and how they played them, so i said, ‘oh this is a mind thing’. When you get in the head, the tail is going to follow so at the end of the day, I just paid attention. I was a good pupil, so when I got out there it was on.  I make no apologies, no excuses to no one. I fed my kids. I didn’t go and take, they gave.

Nov 2011 18

Did The Game confirm that he slept with Gloria Govan — while she was with ex Matt Barnes? A couple of weeks back, on Basketball Wives: LA, Jackie Christie mentioned that Gloria supposedly slept with someone — but the name was beeped out. There has been rumors that Gloria and Game had a little fling.

Baller Alert reported that a source said, “The Game is on tour and it stopped in [my city] this past Sunday. I ran into The Game at the strip club. We were in VIP so obviously I wanted to ask him about Gloria. He was clearly drunk so I just asked ‘Is it true you fawked Gloria from Basketball Wives?’… He just laughed and then nodded. Yep, so the rumor is TRUE!!!”

  • Game also made a song called “Good Girls Go Bad” where he mentioned Gloria. In the third verse, he spit, “Drizzy, I’m sitting here watching Basketball Wives. Like, ‘uhh, these basketball wives?’ Only cute one, Gloria, that’s my **gg* Matt Barnes’ chick. Can’t swim in that poon fool, that’s a crucial conflict. Never sleep with the wife of **gg*s you eat with.”

Nov 2011 01

Has your sex life been suffering? Essence.com has posted some tips from Jennifer Hunt and Dan Baritchi‘s The Best Sex of Your Life: 101 Secret Every Woman Should Know. Here are 16 tips for better sex.

Have More Sex: If you’re not quite satisfied, give it another go. There is no rule that says you can only have sex once or twice a day or night. If you’ve both got the energy to go another round, it can’t hurt. In fact, it can help. Sex raises the level of endorphins in the brain, so the more you have, literally, the happier it will make you.

Tell Him You Want More: When it comes to sexual success, honesty is the best policy. If you like what he’s doing, but you haven’t quite achieved orgasm from it, let him know that. Faking it, won’t get you anywhere.

Meet In Secret: There’s nothing like a super sexy, spur of the moment rendezvous. If you can pull it off, set a time to meet your lover at a location only you and he know. What you do there is your business, but we can guarantee you it will be a good time. (Note: Just remember to keep a low-profile and don’t get caught.)

Make Your Fantasies Come Alive: Release your hottest fantasies from your minds and let them out in the bedroom. Try any and everything you always said you wanted to. Why not? Find a public bathroom with just enough room for two, or dress up as that naughty nurse. Don’t hold back!

Wear Something Comfortable: The way you dress can and will affect your mood. If you squeezed into a super sexy outfit just for him, but you can’t breathe or feel out-of-sorts wearing it, you both lose. To feel your sexiest you must dress your sexiest and most comfortable – even if it means slipping in to one of his t-shirts with nothing else. As long as you’re confident, he’ll love it.

Play With Toys: You know that little “massager” you’ve been eyeing but are afraid to purchase? Don’t be. Using sex toys in bed with your lover can increase orgasm and help you to experience different types of orgasms. Now doesn’t that sound exciting?

Make the Time: We get it. You’re married with kids and grueling work hours. With your focus on being a good parent it can be nearly impossible to find the time for sex. Here’s the thing. You must make that time – even if it means hiring a baby sitter and having “date night” at a nearby spa or hotel.

Tease Him Via Text: Steamy text messages and emails will increase the anticipation of seeing later. If you can master turning each other on before you’ve even laid eyes on each other, the passion will be heightened when you do.

Get On a Schedule: If you’re distracted, you can’t focus on having the best sex possible. You know what days or times are less hectic than others. When you can, try to schedule “fun time” then so you’ll be at your best.

Massage Down There: Massaging each other’s privates before or after sex can be extremely erotic. Focus more on a tantric massage and less on achieving orgasm.

Lounge in the Nude: Plan a clothing optional weekend together where you both decide to go somewhere private like a resort or hotel and just spend hours upon hours together in the nude.

Get On Top: Don’t be afraid girl, get on up there. This position gives you the most control and is the best way to get clitoral or g-spot orgasm. Take charge and enjoy!

Make a Fantasy Box: You write down your fantasies on a little piece of paper and have him do the same. Put them in a box and agree that once a week you’ll pull something from the box and give it a try.

Learn Your Body Language: Great body language and expressions can go a long way. Use your face and your motions to convey your enjoyment to each other when things are going well.

Make Eye Contact: When you make eye contact while performing oral sex and during intercourse you’re able to gauge his responses and him yours. When you see what you’re doing is working, you can take notes on how to better please each other

Change Your Diet: If you’re not up for it, you’ll never enjoy it. If you have a poor diet it can affect your libido. If you find yourself feeling lazy during intercourse or too tired for sex altogether, it’s time to add more fuel foods to your diet.

Oct 2011 11

Here are 10 totally avoidable mistakes women often make in bed — via Essence.com.

NOT BEING FRESH: You don’t have to be fresh out the shower to hop in the sack with your lover, but you do need to freshen up first. This includes your breath. (No one’s a fan of garlic or onion breath.)

STOPPING IN THE MIDDLE: Calling a timeout for no good reason is never a good idea unless you’re okay with being the ultimate mood killer.

GIVING TOO MANY INSTRUCTIONS: To the left…no right..down there…wait, up here. Sound familiar? If this sounds like your usual routine, it’s time to change it up. Men want to know what you want but they’re looking for love not a lesson plan. Beware of being too controlling.

BEING A JOKESTER: It can be instinctual to want to make a joke or giggle when you’re nervous, but doing so in bed can sometimes make things more awkward for him. Sex is fun, but not always a laughing matter.

EXPECTING HIM TO DO EVERYTHING: Sex is a two-person activity. If you’re not up for doing your part it can be a real turn off. Initiate what you want and take an active role in his pleasure.

GETTING TOO PHYSICAL: Unless he’s okayed it, you shouldn’t be in the business of leaving love marks on his body – especially not those that could leave a scar. (Back-scratching with long nails is what women are most guilty of.)

NAMING NAMES: Admit it, you’ve probably already been there. Calling out his name can be the sexiest thing a man hears during sex, if it’s his name, of course. Don’t make a habit of screaming out a name during sex unless you’re certain you know what will come out of your mouth.

NOT KISSING HIM BACK: Contrary to common belief, men do like to kiss – a lot. Sometimes even more so during sex. Avoiding eye contact and not puckering up in the heat of the moment are two surefire ways to kill the mood.

KEEPING YOUR CLOTHES ON: Don’t hide those curves – he loves them. Sex just isn’t the same without sensual skin-on-skin contact. Lose the t-shirt or the lingerie and get into the moment.

WANTING TO KEEP THE LIGHTS OFF: Women who feel insecure about their bodies are often fearful of getting naked if the lights aren’t out. Don’t be. If he likes what he sees, let him see it.

Oct 2011 04

Sex is a part of marriage. There are countless articles and posts on how to improve your sex life, or guaranteed ways to knock his/her socks off in bed, but what about the articles about how to ruin your sex life, specifically your spouse’s sex life?

It’s really not all that difficult to ruin sex – and if this is your goal, simply follow these suggestions and you’re sure to end up in a barren, sexless marriage that’ll allow both of you to feel isolated and alone.

  • To ruin sex for your spouse, follow these steps — via YourTango.com:

1. Expect sex simply because you’re married. Every marriage partner should fulfill their marital “duty” therefore they owe you sex. It’s one of the benefits of being married. They said “I do” to you – so they should “do you.”

2. Have sex the same time and place every week. This way neither of you will have to wonder when or how sex will occur. “Saturday night – 9:30 p.m. in the bed.” Just like clockwork – who really wants spontaneity and chance when it comes to their sex life?

3. Follow the routine each time. Be sure to follow the same steps and plays each time. It’s way too much work to come up with different things to do together. And after all, variety and spice aren’t necessary for sex, right?

4. Be sure to be intoxicated so you can loosen up. After all, sex is really only about you. If you’re drinking is a turn off to your spouse, tough. If they love you then they’ll just have to get over it.

5. Only touch your spouse with the goal of sex in mind. Who really needs non-sexual touch? Save the hugs, kisses, holding hands crap for the build up to the deed. That way your partner will clearly know that sex and touch go hand in hand. No chance for missed signals or misunderstandings. How great would that be?

6. Skip the foreplay and go straight for the gusto. In the fast paced world we live in, who really has the time to slowly build up to great sex? It simply takes too much work to bother with all that extra stuff. Stop wasting time and get right to the intercourse. Besides, you both have to work in the morning and need your sleep.

7. Keep your clothes on during sex. There really is little need to get completely naked during sex. It simply adds more work afterwards because you have to get dressed again.

8. Criticize your spouse’s sexual performance. I think it’s called tough love. How else is your spouse supposed to know the areas they need to improve? If they are going to keep up with your abilities in bed they need to know where they suck (oh wait, encouraging them where and what to focus on would improve things, so disregard this point).

9. Criticize their physical appearance. As your partner ages and perhaps lets themselves go, be sure to inform them how much that turns you off. This will encourage them to do something about it, which only helps both of you in the long run.

10. Have sex with the TV on. You want to be sure that you don’t let sex get in the way of your favorite shows. Keep the TV on the entire time, that way you can watch the latest American Idol’s hopes get crushed while celebrating the love and affection you share with your spouse. What a winning combination!

11. Answer the phone during sex. You never know if the call may be important, and you really can’t trust voicemail. The same rule applies for text messages and emails. Reply to them ASAP, after all, you don’t need to use your hands during sex, might as well send a few texts.

12. Tweet about it before, during, and after. In our social media saturated world, be sure to let everyone else know what’s going on with your sex life. After all, if something happens to you and you don’t Tweet it or update it via your status on Facebook – did it really happen?

13. Get sex over with as fast as possible – as long as you’re satisfied. Sex is really all about you. No need to ask your partner if there’s anything you could do for them. Assume everything is fine unless they say something.

14. Get away as fast as possible once you’re finished. The sooner you’re done, the sooner you’ll be able to get some sleep. Save the talking till tomorrow at breakfast. And no need to cuddle or touch each other, refer back to rule 5.

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